What Makes A Gentleman?

The Gentleman's code is something that has existed for decades and has changed with time. However, some traditions and manners are better left untouched. We spoke to 5 of Philippine Tatler's friends to get to know more about them and what they think being a gentleman means in our world, today.

Justin Pitt

To me the notion of being a Gentleman is ever evolving. Integrity is doing what's right even when it might be harder or comes at a personal cost. I have been blessed as a hotelier to participate in many programs from the worlds best, all of whom exhibit traits of honesty, consistency and authenticity. Honesty is taking responsibility for your actions. Consistency is sticking your message and beliefs despite the difficulty of situation. Finally authenticity is about not being a different person to suit the requirement. A gentleman is honest, he is consistent and has authenticity in all he does.

Javier Puno

In my opinion, a gentleman is made by his respect for himself and for others. To me, that is no oversimplification. A man that has respect as a foundation, and who ensures that it dictates the way that he carries himself and interacts with others is a bona fide gentleman.

Mandy Eduque

I recall being told, in my very younger days, that good manners and right conduct were what defined a gentleman. I have found this to be as true today as it was then. To this, I would add only that a gentleman is always considerate of the feelings of others.

Marco Lobregat

What makes a gentleman is his ability to let go of his own ego for the needs of others and his cool demeanour while doing so.

Andy Ugarte

I believe a gentleman is a man of integrity, morals and confidence. Someone that treats all others with the same respect he would give himself. One who does not shy away from honourably addressing uncomfortable situations to achieve a greater good. I wish I could say I possess all of these characteristics, but they are all qualities I always strive to achieve and maintain.

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