Businesswoman and former Mayor of San Vicente, Palawan expresses her thoughts and anxieties during her pregnancy in 2020 amid the threat of Covid-19

In March, when the lockdown in Manila started to take place, I didn’t know what to expect. I was four months pregnant, a first-time mum, so I was naturally nervous and anxious and worried over my baby. I was also concerned about my family and my loved ones. What if I get sick; what will happen to them? How do I take care of them without any physical contact?

Add to this my worry over my safety in hospitals. Every two weeks, I had to go see my doctor, get tests done, including my ultrasound. That was not easy, what with the quarantine going on! It was also scary as I will be running the risk of being exposed to Covid patients or those who came in contact with them. But I had to be brave about it.

My own health and overall wellness were important as I wanted to make sure I was physically and mentally healthy for my baby. But what to do? The gyms and wellness studios were closed, and I had limited access to the outdoors. So, I made a makeshift gym setup at home comprising a treadmill, bike and a Pilates corner for my online Zoom prenatal sessions. It was great to be able to work out at home during the lockdown!

During this time of uncertainty, I found comfort in my partner, Neil. He took extra care of me, did most of the household chores and cooking! He also calmed me down when I would get a little pregnancy anxiety. It truly helps when you have a supportive and caring partner!

My mum and sisters were really a big help in guiding me throughout the prenatal journey. They gave me useful motherly advice! By staying home, I actually had more time to prepare myself for when I had to give birth and welcoming my baby girl. And wonder of wonders, I discovered, as well as learnt, to embrace my inner homebody!

Finally, on August 8, Baby Nara Alessandra was born—all of 5.9lbs and 19in. Our first skin-to-skin contact as I breastfed her was a joy beyond description. My baby girl has finally arrived—and all the anxieties, worries, discomforts of the pregnancy quickly forgotten.

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Pie Alvarez